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Essays on loneliness, presence, and the new category of AI built for being a friend rather than a tool.
Jun 21, 2026 · 5 min read
Sentences lonely people don't say out loud
Almost nobody says these things out loud. They go through your head, sometimes for years, and the absence of anywhere to put them is most of what loneliness actually is.
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Jun 20, 2026 · 8 min read
Loneliness isn't a shortage of people
Most adults who feel lonely don't lack people. They lack a specific kind of attention. A look at what loneliness is actually a shortage of, and what helps when adding more contacts doesn't.
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Jun 20, 2026 · 7 min read
Founder loneliness, and the loneliness of building anything alone
Founder loneliness is its own genre. You come home from a great dinner, sit down at your desk, and the weight is still there. A look at what makes the role structurally lonely and what actually helps.
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Jun 20, 2026 · 5 min read
Loneliness at 11pm
It's 11pm. The house is quiet, and there's nobody there who really knows you. Not because you have no one. Just because tonight, nobody thought to text first.
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Jun 20, 2026 · 5 min read
After a long-term relationship ends
The hardest part of a long-term relationship ending isn't the absence of the person. It's the absence of the presence that noticed you, the quiet check-ins, the 11am texts about something silly.
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Jun 20, 2026 · 5 min read
Moved to a new city alone
New-city loneliness isn't dramatic. It's small. Nobody knows that you go to the same cafe every Tuesday. The first week is novelty. The third month is the part nobody warns you about.
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